Step 1
Set Boundaries
Use clear “teaching” statements.
Examples
- “Drinking alcohol is for adults only.”
- “Underage drinking is against the law.”
- “When you are 21 years old you can make the decision.”
Step 2
Be Consistent
In our words and actions, be sure to not send mixed signals. Don’t apply different rules for different situations, or act in a way that doesn't match your previously stated rules.
Examples
- Consistently having the same rule about underage drinking, no matter the occasion or what you may be celebrating.
- Always be a role model for responsible drinking. As parents, it is important to be on the same page when it comes to your message about underage drinking.
Step 3
Check for Understanding
Sometimes it’s not enough just to state the rules. In order to make sure that they’re sticking, follow up with questions to help gauge a child’s level of understanding.
Examples
- “When we talked before, what did we say about alcohol?”
- “How old do you have to be to drink?”
- “Is it okay for kids to drink alcohol?”